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Another Engagement for Kate’s Calendar, & Thoughts on “Fashion and Power”

We are back with two quick updates, followed by a guest post.

The first item is an addition to Kate’s Calendar. Next Monday (Feb. 17) the Duchess joins Her Majesty at Buckingham Palace for a reception honoring the dramatic arts. Among those expected to attend: Downton Abbey creator Julian Fellowes, Cate Blanchett, Benedict Cumberbatch (perhaps best known in the USA as Sherlock Holmes), Dame Helen Mirren and Sir David Attenborough. The Queen is Patron of the Royal Academy of Dramatic Arts (RADA). More from Hello!

The Queen and the Duchess will greet an estimated 250 guests, including directors, producers, playwrights, teachers and actors, before enjoying a series of performances in the Palace’s ballroom.

Other members of the royal family, including the Duke of Edinburgh, will then meet the guests in the state rooms.

The event on the 17th is slated to begin at 6pm, that is 1pm EST/10am PST.

The other update involves our giveaway for a that gift basket filled with chocolate and my friend Megan’s series of “Unruly Royals” books.  Because of the volume of entries (well beyond 400 at this point) we are extending the deadline to enter until Monday night at midnight. The cutoff for entries contest was supposed to be this evening (Sunday), but we are extending it 24 hours.

Now, some background on Megan from her publisher, and her post.

Megan Mulry writes sexy, stylish, romantic fiction. Her first book, A Royal Pain, was an NPR Best Book of 2012 and USA Today bestseller. Before discovering her passion for romance novels, she worked in magazine publishing and finance. After many years in New York, Boston, London, and Chicago, she now lives with her family in Florida.

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Fashion and Power

Thank you so much for having me to What Kate Wore! I’m so happy to be here celebrating the release of my fourth and final book in the Unruly Royals series, R is for Rebel. This site has all my favorite things: I love thinking about commoners and royals and how they fall in love—and what they wear while they’re doing it.

As I was contemplating fashion and how it has influenced this series of books, I realized that each one features an important piece of clothing that turns out to be particularly meaningful for the main character. In A Royal Pain it was a little red Valentino dress that Bronte wore on her first “real” date with Max. In If the Shoe Fits it was a vintage Yves Saint Laurent blouse that Sarah inherited from her mother. In Love Again showed Claire clinging to her royal grandmother’s vintage bed jacket for sentimental reasons. In R is for Rebel Eliot borrows this incredibly gorgeous Dior gown from the Metropolitan Museum for Abby to wear for a private photo shoot he has organized in an abandoned apartment in Paris. (Yes, Eliot is insanely romantic…insane in a good way.)

I think the Duchess of Cambridge has shown a new generation of women about the power of clothes and how to use that power to feel confident and beautiful. In my books, I love exploring that idea: how certain articles of clothing can make us feel invincible. For me it was my first Armani suit, for which I scrimped and saved on my entry-level publishing salary in 1990. Do you have a favorite piece of clothing for when you need to feel strong and confident? What is it?

Thanks again for having me! I love it here 🙂

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Megan is wonderful about responding to comments, don’t be shy about sharing your thoughts on the topic!

We’ll see you Tuesday when Kate attends the Portrait Gala at the National Portrait Gallery.

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Rachel

Thursday 13th of February 2014

I don't really have much in the way of input on the discussion going on in the comments. But when I was reading about Kate's engagement at Buckingham Palace for the dramatic arts reception and saw the expected guests all I could think was: Kate and Benedict in the same room? I wouldn't know where to look! I'd need a second set of eyes so I can take in what Kate was wearing and watch Benedict at the same time!

Karen

Monday 10th of February 2014

I have liked almost all of Kate's fashion choices. Probably the things I have not liked are her wedge shoes, and some of the brown dresses she has worn. Overall, she always looks impeccable, and cannot imagine her in any kind of pantsuit (glad she has stayed away from them so far).

And after reading the post about Megan Mulry's books - I have downloaded and read the first two and am about to download the third! Really enjoying the series, a lot of fun to read. Thanks WKW for the great site, it's always a pleasure to read the tasteful updates and get a look at what is coming up for Kate.

Megan Mulry

Monday 10th of February 2014

Hi Karen,

Thank you so much for reading! I'm so glad you are enjoying the series.

As for Kate's fashion, I hadn't thought about the wedges one way or another, but I think I like them because they remind me of those square-toed wedge espadrilles my mother used to wear int he 70s.

Thanks for commenting!

ElizaMo

Monday 10th of February 2014

Does Kate demonstrate the power of clothes? She certainly shows the power of celebrity and the speed at which details of her outfits circulate via social media. She generally seems to favour discretion and the role of dutiful royal spouse in her choice of outfits.

I do think a good pair of high heels adds a quick shot of confidence, and Kate certainly takes to those in abundance.

Referring back to the last post, which was a little overwhelmed by choccy-mania, I was interested to see the comments following the Daily Mail article about tiaras and skirt lengths. I’d agree with WKW re tiaras – the Cambridges are upping their game as Charles comes more into the spotlight, which will mean turning on more bling.

As for the skirts – it’s not so much the lengths of the skirts that matters as much as the fact that they keep flying up. And that wouldn’t be a problem if Kate wore some respectable underwear. At the moment, rear-view shots of Kate threaten to be as lurid as any exhibitionist on the Daily Mail’s notorious Sidebar of Shame.

I fear the Duchess is on the brink of becoming a diplomatic liability, something that really would result in pressure being applied. So what interests me in Katie Nicholl’s article is a suggestion that maybe, under cover of having baby on board, Kate might finally accept the one accessory she so sorely lacks – a dresser.

There has to be someone on hand to warn her when she is about to do deja-vu all over again. Both the Queen and Diana have shown evidence of petticoats when the breezes get frisky. Normal women in normal life observe these precautions, so why is a royal Duchess so very slow to latch on?

Lili

Monday 10th of February 2014

I really have to disagree that the Duchess is on the verge of becoming a "diplomatic liability". As I recall, on only one occasion did her dress fly up enough to reveal that she was probably wearing thong underwear. That was the yellow Jenny Packham that she wore on the Canada trip back in 2011. On other occasions that the wind has lifted her skirts, it hasn't actually been to the point of revealing her underwear, unless my memory is failing me, so we're actually not in a position to say what sort of underwear she's been wearing lately, whether it's "respectable" or not.

Her navy Orla Kiely skirt flew up in a stiff breeze in November, but only her slip (possibly the skirt lining) was revealed -- hardly a lurid sight. A number of other royal women have had that experience over the years, including the Queen herself and William's mother. As I commented here once before, there's a rather amazing photograph in existence, of Princess Anne's knicker-clad derriere, gloriously revealed by a brisk wind when she was appearing at an official engagement.

Lili

Monday 10th of February 2014

As an art historian, I've had reason to think rather a lot about the issue of fashion and power. There was a time when rigid class divides and related sumptuary laws meant that the way someone dressed really did represent his or her access to power and ability to wield it. Today that is not the case. Style, once the province only of the wealthy who could afford designer clothing and who therefore proclaimed their wealth via their stylishness, has democratically proliferated, has trickled down to the masses. The average person now has access to it via relatively inexpensive retailers. (I actually once read a lament about that, several years ago. What was the point of dressing well, the writer asked, if everyone could look stylish and you couldn't necessarily tell the difference between a dress that cost $3000 and one that cost $300?)

I think it's interesting that we're seeing royals who are regularly on public display now frequently going out of their way NOT to dress in clothing that announces wealth and power. We're seeing the young women dressing in relatively affordable pieces much of the time, and they are having a greater impact than their elders once had on the way average people dress, both because of the lower cost of what they wear and because the Internet allows information about designers and stores to be disseminated quickly and for rapid ordering. The democratization of style has trickled UP to the onetime halls of wealth and power, not too surprisingly, since royals in this day and age really exercise no power and have to be increasingly careful not to suggest that they do.

By the same token, however, those same young royals are conscious of the need to appear to BE royal every now and then, because what's the point of a monarchy, as the writer I mentioned earlier might ask, if it didn't sometimes put on a great display? And to that end, there are certain types of clothing and accessories that, even now, in the early 21st century, proclaim their "royalness," much as certain types did so back in the 15th or 16th centuries, when the average woman was prohibited from wearing them. I've commented before that dresses worn with matching or near-matching coats are very "princess-y" or "queenly,"; most women don't wear such outfits, at least not often, and they certainly don't wear them with hats and fascinators and pointless little clutch bags that aren't big enough to hold anything. But such outfits instantly announce, "This woman is royalty" to anyone who's paid attention over the years, and the Duchess of Cambridge began to wear them even before she became royalty herself. She was letting the world know that she knew how to present herself as a princess, encouraging people to see her as one via her clothes.

In other words, even royals wear uniforms.

As for the rest of us, we're all conscious of the way such non-uniform uniforms can work in our own lives, how they can influence perceptions of us. However, sometimes our choices can have an unexpected impact. When I was nearing my college graduation, I bought an elegant black Harve Benard suit for job interviews. (I couldn't then dream of anything like Armani.) A few years later, I wore that suit to interview with professors at the universities to which I was applying for graduate study. I thought it made me look smart, highly intellectual and efficient, potentially powerful in a severe sort of way, and it seemed to have worked very well on the job market.

However, I was wearing the black suit in the office of a university department at the moment that the man who would become my husband suddenly walked through the door. We didn't meet that day, but my husband says he took an interest in me at once, partly because of my suit. "I thought," he told me several months later, "that you looked really sexy in it."

Sexy? Yikes. That wasn't the sort of "power" I'd been trying to wield. But then, after 27 years of marriage, who am I to complain?

Megan Mulry

Monday 10th of February 2014

You all are seriously light years ahead of me on this topic. Every sentence has me nodding and eye-widening about all the nuances and subtleties of fashion and power and royalty. But about the sex *cough (my area of professional expertise) cough* I was not surprised by your husband's remark that you looked sexy in that suit, Lili. I think feminine power is often linked to sexuality and how that is channeled or corralled. I think this is also a potent element of the Duchess of Cambridge's style. From way back when, as I would comment on how cute or confident or pretty or elegant she looked, my husband would often add, "And sexy." He wasn't objectifying her or trying to take away from her other attributes; he was trying to let me know that she was "all that." I'm not sure how any of this can be worked into this discussion, or even if it should be, but we are all sexual creatures and how we present that to the world can definitely be part of our power. Hope that makes sense. (Please moderate if necessary, admin!)

ElizaMo

Monday 10th of February 2014

Further on the changes in style, I love this quote found the other day: "High-low dressing is how women are dressing right now, and the Australians own that look," from the buying manager at Net-a-porter.com. Which brings us neatly back to some of the designers we've been looking at prior to the next tour.

admin

Monday 10th of February 2014

Goodness, Harve Benard, a name from my past; I also wore suits from that label for the same purpose. You are spot-on about ensembles or look that send a message at a glance. We are also very much in sync on the clothing as uniform and/or as armor.

Bailey Fleming

Monday 10th of February 2014

Already entered on the other post, but just too excited to not comment again! Excited for whoever wins that awesome basket (fingers crossed that it is me)!

Megan Mulry

Monday 10th of February 2014

Good luck Bailey! I was blown away by the number of commenter/chocoholics on that giveaway…I guess certain things like chocolate, romance, and royalty are just a perfect storm. Only a little while longer until WKW announces the winner :)

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